How I’ll Know It’s Time

Guidance for One of Life’s Hardest Decisions

Deciding when to say goodbye to a beloved pet is one of the most difficult choices a pet parent will ever face. It’s natural to second-guess yourself, to wonder "Am I doing this too soon?" or "Should I wait a little longer?"

The truth is, there is rarely a "perfect" time, but there is a kindest time—and as pet parents, our final act of love is ensuring they don’t suffer needlessly.

Compassionate Guidance for a Difficult Decision

What to Consider When Making the Decision

Good Days vs. Bad Days – Start tracking your pet’s daily comfort. Are bad days outnumbering the good ones?
Pain & Mobility – Are they struggling to get up, move, or rest comfortably? Does pain medication no longer seem to help?
Appetite & Enjoyment of Life – Have they stopped eating, playing, or engaging with their favorite people?
Dignity & Hygiene – Are they losing control of their bladder or bowels, or needing assistance for basic functions?
Personality Changes – Do they seem distant, confused, anxious, or withdrawn?

For many, waiting for a sign can lead to unnecessary suffering. Instead of looking for a single moment, consider their overall quality of life and what they would want if they could tell you.

You Don’t Have to Make This Decision Alone

Trust your instincts. You know your pet better than anyone.
Lean on your veterinarian. They can guide you through medical factors.
Give yourself grace. This decision is made out of love, not failure.